Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Friday, December 11, 2009
Thankful Thanksgiving
We have so much to be grateful for this Thanksgiving. Our greatest blessing is, of course, a new healthy baby, and we also feel so fortunate that SO much wonderful family came out to visit us!! What a treat!! Taylor came a few weeks ago and then my wonderful sister flew ALL the way from L.A. with my beautiful niece Lizzy to see the baby and help me. Katy is amazing - she cleaned my house, did laundry, took care of the baby, played with Daniel, and made me the world's greatest Chili (the Deer Valley Resort recipe for all your skiers). She is not only an incredible sister, but a best friend as well. Love you and miss you Kate!!
After Katy left, my parents flew in a few days later with my sister Stephanie for Thanksgiving. I was so excited that they came out for the holiday, and I could not wait for my dad and sister to meet the baby. My mom took charge of the Thanksgiving meal, which, of course, turned out fabulous!! I just loved hanging out, talking, watching movies, and playing games with everyone. My dad and Bryson also picked up a beautiful Christmas tree and we spent a whole night decorating the house, baking cookies, and listening to Christmas music- so wonderful.
We blessed James the Sunday after Thanksgiving. Bryson's parents, Frank & Cindy, made quite the journey to attend, and we are so thankful they did. They flew on the early flight to Buffalo and drove all the way to Rochester to be there. Then a few hours later they flew home. Thank you for making such an effort!!
The blessing was beautiful; Bryson could not have done a better job. It was a wonderful day.
the presents and cupcakes
Posted by Jen Richards at 12/11/2009 02:22:00 PM 9 comments
Monday, November 16, 2009
One Month
Posted by Jen Richards at 11/16/2009 08:35:00 AM 9 comments
Sunday, November 8, 2009
3 Weeks Old
Posted by Jen Richards at 11/08/2009 08:26:00 AM 12 comments
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Happy be-lated Halloween!
I know this is a little late (now that baby #2 is here, everything seems to happen a little late!) but here are our pics from Halloween. I hope you all had a great night of trick or treating!
Posted by Jen Richards at 11/03/2009 08:38:00 PM 7 comments
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
sweet baby james
We took James to the doctors on Monday (a week ago) and he had gained 8 oz since he left the hospital! He is such great eater, which is such a blessing since nursing was rather tricky with Daniel.
The birth story is a rather entertaining one- I still laugh when I think about that day, which was only a little over a week ago. I woke up that morning feeling normal (as normal as you can at 9 months) and my mother and I decided to take Daniel to Target to get the finishing touches for his Halloween costume and then to Chuck E Cheese to play some games. That night I noticed a few strong contractions, but I had been having fairly painful ones for over a week. I felt like I had been timing contractions on and off again for over two weeks, so this was nothing out of the ordinary. I was hungry, so I made myself a bowl of oatmeal and sat down on the chair to watch movie with Daniel and my mom. Minutes later I felt something that I can only describe as water balloon exploding under my seat and I knew right away that my water had broken. I was calm as I was sure I had plenty of time to get to the hospital, but my mom insisted that we throw the bags into the car and get to the hospital ASAP. We called Bryson at 9:59 PM to let him know that I was coming and to meet me outside the hospital to take me to the L & D floor (he was working a 27 hour trauma shift at the time). As soon as we got into the car the contractions started to become very strong, but I still thought we had plenty of time.
Bryson met us outside and we headed up to Labor and Delivery. By this time I was in quite a bit of pain. The doctor met us in the room and the first thing I said was that I wanted an epidural. He checked me and then said, "You are at a 10 and need to start pushing. There is no time for an epidural". I was pretty shocked and nervous but realized there was not much I could do at this point. He then measured my stomach and told me he believed the baby was around 8 pounds (which did not ease any anxiety that I had about not having pain medication!).
20 minutes later baby James was born at 11:02 PM, about an hour after my water broke at home. I think I in a state of shock when they placed him on my chest as everything seemed like a blur at that point. I was not prepared to have the baby so fast, but he could not have been more beautiful and I could not have been any more grateful to finally meet this adorable baby boy.
Luckily my mom had only got to the car when Bryson called her, so she and Daniel were able to come back up and meet the baby minutes after he was born. We were all shocked when the nurse yelled out that he weighed 9 pounds 7 oz.!! He was so (and still is) SO big! I think you will notice from the pictures that he does not look like a newborn, and definitely does not fit into ANY of his newborn clothing.
Despite the craziness of the night, the delivery could not have gone any better. Both me and baby are healthy and happy and we could not ask for anything more.
Posted by Jen Richards at 10/20/2009 05:31:00 PM 14 comments
Friday, October 16, 2009
James Franklin is Here!
James Franklin Richards
Born Thursday, October 15th, 2009
11:02 PM
9 Pounds 7 oz.
Posted by Jen Richards at 10/16/2009 10:41:00 PM 17 comments
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Picture Perfect
It took 2 different sessions (the first one ended with him throwing props at the photographer) but we finally got a few great photos of Daniel at the portrait studio. The photographer assured me that most 2 year-olds have a very difficult time, but I was still slightly mortified. Luckily he totally redeemed himself the second time as he sat there and smiled the whole time :)
I think they turned out so cute. Here they are:
Posted by Jen Richards at 10/03/2009 07:20:00 PM 12 comments
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Pregnancy Update
I cannot believe that I only have 3 weeks left before the big due date! I am getting so anxious to meet our new little boy. I do have to say that I am nervous to go through labor and even more nervous about having a newborn in the house again (I just remember sitting on the couch and nursing for what felt like ALL DAY LONG with Daniel!), but I know everything will work out well (plus my dear mother will be here to help).
Daniel seems to be in denial about the whole thing, that, or he really just does not care. This was our conversation this morning:
Me: Daniel, is mom's tummy getting SO big!
Daniel: Yes (which sounds like Yeth- he has a slight lisp), mommy's tummy is so BIG!
Me: Your little brother is in my tummy. Are you excited to meet him soon?
Daniel: Um... no.
Me: You don't want a little brother?
Daniel: No... a kitty!
This is one of our many conversations that usually end of with him either ignoring me when I ask about the baby or telling me there is a puppy or kitty in my stomach. I am very afraid that he is going to be in complete shock when we bring home a new baby! For all of you that have 2+ kids, please send some advice or insight my way as to how I can make this transition easier for little D- I would love to hear from you!
As for me, I have definitely hit that point where I feel pretty uncomfortable most of the time. Eating has become somewhat of a nightmare as anything (ANYTHING) I eat gives me heartburn and if I eat past 6 or so, I pretty much suffer all night long. But I really cannot complain too much- both me and the baby are happy and healthy and do not have much longer to go :) Again, I cannot wait to meet this little guy!!
Posted by Jen Richards at 9/24/2009 02:11:00 PM 17 comments
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Scary!
I usually do not blog about things that go on in our day to day lives. This blog has been mostly dedicated to posting pictures for family and friends to see what we are doing, but something so scary happened to me today that I just feel the need to share.
Daniel and I were grocery shopping at Wegman's today (the world's GREATEST super-market) and he asked to get a slice of pizza, which sounded great to me as well, so I had no problem saying yes. We ate our lunch upstairs and as we were walking down to the main floor, he wanted to go get one of the free apples that they offer children in the bakery section. I had a few bags in one hand and his little hand wrapped around my other. We walked up to the bakery and I noticed he let go of my hand, but continued to stand next to me. I asked the bakery worker for an apple and within seconds I had a little red one in hand and looked down to hand it to Daniel. Yet, within that short time he had taken off and was gone. I scanned the room and did not see him. "Did you see which way my son went?", I asked her in a panicked voice. She had not.
I then started running all around the different aisles, bolting between the Chinese food section, bread, and the row of cakes and sweets. I still saw no sign of his little baby blue shorts, sandals, and curly blond hair. I realized that there were 3 huge exits to the street within feet of where we were standing. I was then convinced that someone had seen him, grabbed him, and had bolted to the parking lot. The thought that I would never see my little boy again popped into my racing mind. I started to yell out "has anyone seen a little boy?". People around me started looking as well. I felt like I was going to vomit. I then ran across the store to the produce section, bolting from each different area looking for my baby. It had only been about 3-4 minutes since he was holding my hand, but it felt like I had been running aimlessly, in slow motion, in the store for an hour. Just then I looked over a large display of peaches to see a sweet looking women holding Daniel. He had a huge grin on his face (with pizza sauce still on it) and was holding his arms around her. I ran over and grabbed him, almost squeezing the life out of the little guy. She said she found him near the Halloween candy display and figured he was lost. I thanked her profusely and then noticed that I was shaking, my heart was beating rapidly, and I started to cry. She put an arm around me and said "it happens to the best of us". I thanked her again and held onto Daniel ever so tightly as we walked out of the store to our car. I was still crying and just sat in the front seat with him for a while so that I could hold him a little longer before putting him in the car seat.
This may seem a little dramatic to some of you, and maybe I am being slightly irrational (due to pregnancy hormones?) but it was such an awful experience. The whole way home I talked to him about 'staying close to mommy' but what was really going through my mind was the horror of never seeing Daniel again and how my life would really be over without him. It could be that I have been following the horrible Jaycee Duggard story too closely, but I do think that the threat of children being abducted in a place like the grocery is very real. I cannot imagine what parents go through when they lose a child- it would be the most horrible and tragic thing to ever happen to someone.
I have decided that I am going TODAY to get one of those backpacks with the strap attached to them.
Posted by Jen Richards at 9/22/2009 01:14:00 PM 11 comments
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Big 30!
Yes... my sweet hubby turned 30 today!! I can't believe it. We already celebrated the big day with a little bowling party last weekend (I will post some pics in the near future) since Bryson has a really hectic week. This morning he came home after a 27 hour shift and the three of us had a yummy German Pancake breakfast and opened cards and gifts.At his little shin-dig I had a contest to see how well 'you know Bryson and the year he was born-1979'. Here are the questions I asked:
How well do you know Bryson (and 1979- the great year he was born)?
a. Maryland
b. Utah
c. Texas
d. Virginia
2) What was the top hit on the Billboards Chart in 1979?
a. We are family- Sister Sledge
b. Message in a bottle- The Police
c. Rapper’s Delight- The Sugarhill Gang
d. Another Brick in the Wall- Pink Floyd
3) How much did a stamp cost?
a. $0.11
b. $0.13
c. $0.15
d. $0.17
4) Bryson did the following to celebrate his Elementary School Graduation:
a. Ditch school and the big graduation
b. Put 2 snakes in his teacher’s desk
c. Rent a limo to pick him and his friends up outside of the school to go get lunch and baseball cards.
d. Start the school on fire.
5) Bryson is the ___________ of 10 kids?
a) Oldest
b) Youngest
c) Middle
d) Are you crazy- he does not come from 10 kids!
6) The top grossing movie of 1979 was:
a. Kramer vs. Kramer
b. The Muppet Movie
c. The China Syndrome
d. Star Trek: The Motion Picture
7) Bryson is fluent in what language (other than English):
a. Spanish
b. French
c. Portuguese
d. German
8) Who won the Super Bowl in 1979?
a. Steelers
b. Cowboys
c. Chargers
d. Seahawks
9) Bryson played the following instrument as a kid:
a. Tuba
b. Piano
c. Sax
d. Violin
10) Bryson was pulled over and taken to jail wearing a mullet, cut off shirt, and sporting a few sweet fake tattoos (on his way to a Monster Truck Rally with friends in college) for the following:
a. Failure to yield to a pedestrian
b. Unpaid Parking tickets (which had been sent to his 80 year-old grandma’s house)
c. Expired Registration (which the notice was sent to his 80 year-old grandma’s house)
d. Expired license (which the notice was sent to his 80 year-old grandma’s house)
11) True or False? Bryson is an Eagle Scout:
a. True
b. False
12) One of Bryson’s hidden talents is:
a. Karaoke
b. Chess
c. Curling
d. Ballroom Dancing
13) Bryson played collegiate lacrosse (and intramural soccer), but what was his favorite thing to do in college?
a. Study for Organic Chemistry
b. Pick up chicks
c. Rock climb
d. Snow ski
14) Which baby is Bryson?
Answers: 1) D 2) D 3) B 4) C 5) A 6) A 7) C 8) A 9) B 10) D (probably B too) 11) C
Hope you have a great day Bryson!!! I am so proud of all you have accomplished in your 30 years and cannot wait to see what the next 30 hold for both you and us :)
Posted by Jen Richards at 9/16/2009 12:48:00 PM 4 comments
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Summer, Part II
I cannot believe it is September and we are drawing near to Fall. Summer is pretty much over- where did the time go? I am so excited for our upstate NY fall, but I will miss all the warm weather and sun we have enjoyed this summer. I also could not have been happier spending so much time with our loved ones- what a treat :) As always, my pictures are out of order. We spent 2 fabulous weeks at Deep Creek this year with the Richards. Daniel and I drove home and on our way, we stopped by NYC to spend some time with Marylynn and Zoe Thomas. Here are the pics:
Marylynn and I with Daniel and Zoe in Times Square
DEEP CREEK!!
Bryson and Frank hanging out in front of the campfire
Daniel, Jordan, and Ryan throwing rocks into the water
Posted by Jen Richards at 9/09/2009 06:56:00 PM 3 comments
Monday, August 3, 2009
Summer!
This summer has been so wonderful so far. We have been so spoiled as we have been able to spend so much time with family and in the sun! I uploaded my pictures out of order, and I am having a hard time moving them around, so I am starting with the end of our vacation and working forward.
Before we went to the Las Vegas and the lake, we spent 4 days on Solana Beach in San Diego. We could not have asked for better weather and it was SO fun to spend time with Katy, Justin, Tommy, and Lizzy (and of course my Dad).
Posted by Jen Richards at 8/03/2009 11:40:00 PM 15 comments
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Catch-Up
This summer is flying by and we have been busy! Between birthdays, trips, and holidays I have had little time to blog- but here are a few highlights from the past few months :)
Memorial Day
MORE PICS TO COME! I did not have my camera while we were vacationing in Las Vegas with my family, but as soon as I get the pics I will post them :) Hope you are having a great summer!
Posted by Jen Richards at 7/08/2009 12:20:00 PM 12 comments
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Little Jordy is 2!!
Posted by Jen Richards at 6/02/2009 10:13:00 PM 1 comments
Sunday, May 31, 2009
2 years gone by 2 fast!
Tomorrow you turn 2 and I just want to say thank you for making me the happiest mommy in the world. Your dad and I agree that these past 2 years that have been the best of our lives and we cannot even remember life before you came into our family. You are the light and joy of our every day and we love you so much. I know this is cliche, but it really does seem like yesterday the doctors placed you in my arms in the hospital and you became our son. It amazes me how much love for life you have after only living for 2 years - you are so full of joy and energy and I feel so blessed to spend my days with you. I love you more than you will ever know and I hope you have a great day tomorrow!!!
xoxo- Mommy

Posted by Jen Richards at 5/31/2009 03:06:00 PM 10 comments
Friday, May 29, 2009
No Show :(
For all of you that tuned into 'Rate My Space' last night ... they aired the wrong show!! I was SO bummed as I have been waiting months to see their episode :( I guess producers from the show called Katy yesterday to apologize and told her that their show will air this Saturday night (tomorrow night). Hopefully you will be able to catch that one. Sorry for the mess-up!
Posted by Jen Richards at 5/29/2009 02:49:00 PM 1 comments
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Watch it!
My sister Katy's episode of 'Rate My Space' airs today on HGTV at 5:30 PM EST- so don't miss it!! I have only seen pics of her new 'space' so I am SO excited to watch how they renovated her beautiful new living room. I am not sure when it comes on on the West Coast, but I think it is the same time (I think- you will have to check). Anyway, anyone in Rochester who wants to come over and watch it with me is welcome!!
Posted by Jen Richards at 5/28/2009 08:23:00 AM 4 comments
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
And Baby #2 is a....
Posted by Jen Richards at 5/20/2009 12:22:00 PM 15 comments
Saturday, May 16, 2009
Bath Time
My two boys :)
Posted by Jen Richards at 5/16/2009 07:54:00 AM 15 comments
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Happy Belated Mother's Day!!
I know this is very late, but I hope ALL the wonderful moms out there had a great Mother's Day! I have decided that Mother's Day is really a day of gratitude for so many reason. Here is a small list of the things I felt grateful for last Sunday:
Posted by Jen Richards at 5/14/2009 01:39:00 PM 1 comments
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Finally Some Sun!
Bryson had a week off last month and we were both in need of some serious sun (it is STILL cold in Rochester) and R & R. Shannon and Cindy so kindly offered to watch Daniel for us while we went on a 3 1/2 day, 4 night Caribbean cruise. It was so so so wonderful sleeping in, eating more food than I will admit to, and reading in the sun. Despite being blissfully content on our cruise, we both missed Daniel so much and were very excited to fly home to see him. We actually spent most the trip talking about him. I guess every morning when Cindy pulled him from his crib, Daniel would say ''mommy, daddy bye bye... but back later''. It seemed like the poor kid was reassuring himself that we would come back! He was very busy the week were gone and was in great hands, so I know that despite missing us, he had a great time.
The next day we were scheduled to dock at Cozumel, but due to the Swine Flu, the cruise decided to spend the day at Nassau (which I was thrilled as I think it is so much prettier in the Bahamas than Cozumel). We walked all over the Atlantis Hotel- which was amazing!
Posted by Jen Richards at 5/06/2009 08:43:00 PM 10 comments
Friday, April 17, 2009
A great week!
Posted by Jen Richards at 4/17/2009 07:12:00 PM 7 comments
Monday, March 23, 2009
Monday, March 9, 2009
New Hair
And I was far too sick of my blond hair. Well, actually, I was sick of paying WAY too much for highlights, having to sit for 3 + hours in a stinky salon to get them done, and seeing dark roots in a matter of weeks after all of that. Being blond was a pain and I am thrilled with my new color. It is much darker than my natural, but so much prettier than the nasty mousy hue that I sadly call my own. Who knows- I may feel the need to go light again once summer hits but I am loving the dark right now :)
(thanks Bryson for taking the pic :)
Posted by Jen Richards at 3/09/2009 08:56:00 PM 20 comments








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